These are live, online couples coaching sessions.

One couple works with me in real time in Zoom. I lead the session the same way I do privately, stepping in when the conversation starts to break down, stopping the moves that keep causing damage, and guiding the couple back toward each other instead of letting the moment collapse.

The difference here is that the session happens with an audience, who I refer to as a supportive community of other couples.

Over the years, I’ve learned that when this work is witnessed, it changes how people understand what’s possible for their own marriage. Couples watching aren’t listening for advice. They’re recognizing themselves in what they’re seeing and noticing what happens when someone knows how to guide the moment while it’s happening.

These are live, online couples coaching sessions that you and your spouse can attend.

You are watching a real couples session unfold in real time. I’m working directly with one couple on camera, helping them stop what keeps hurting their relationship and guiding them back toward each other while it’s happening.

When you and your spouse show up, two things are happening at the same time.

You begin seeing yourselves. You recognize the reactions, the misunderstandings, and the moments where things usually go wrong in your own marriage. Because it isn’t happening to you in that moment, you can see what actually helps and what doesn’t. That recognition stays with you and changes how you show up later in your own conversations.

At the same time, you are part of the supportive community around the couple being coached.

There are moments in every marriage when one partner needs understanding, validation, or encouragement, and for very real reasons the other partner can’t provide it right then. When those things come from other couples who recognize the struggle, it fills a gap without pulling the spouses apart. The couple on camera can take in more because it isn’t all coming from one place. And when more is received, more becomes available between them.

That’s how the impact multiplies. What I bring as the coach leads the work. What community adds allows the couple to stay open long enough for the work to take hold.

Getting notified simply lets you know when one of these live sessions is scheduled so you and your spouse can decide when to attend.

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Volunteering means you and your spouse are the couple I work with live.

You receive a ninety-minute couples coaching session with me, led the same way I lead my private work. We have enough time for the real issue to surface, for the spiral to slow, and for something different to take hold between you while you’re still in it.

You are supported from more than one place.

You are receiving leadership from me as I guide the conversation and intervene at the moments that usually cause damage. At the same time, you are surrounded by other couples who understand what it takes to stay present when things are hard. Their understanding, encouragement, and affirmation add strength to the work as it’s happening.

When more is coming in, more becomes possible. You can stay open longer. You don’t have to protect yourself as quickly. You’re able to take in what’s offered and give it back to each other in a way that hasn’t been available before.

Your willingness to do this work openly matters beyond your own marriage.

Other couples see themselves in you. They watch what happens when the right guidance and the right support are present at the same time. What they witness carries back into their own relationships and shapes what they believe is possible.

I offer these volunteer sessions at no cost as a way of appreciation for couples who are willing to step into that role.